How do you recognize true love?
Signs of True Love
Deep gazes, passionate kisses, a kind message, a bouquet of flowers as a gift, or an invitation to a romantic date by the lakeside. There are many ways to signal to someone: "I love you. And I want you in my life because you are something very special." Nevertheless, every love also comes with a large portion of uncertainty. Does the loved one feel the same way as you do? So intensely and genuinely? And is it true love? Or just a meaningless flirt? And what is love anyway? Are there signs that indicate it is true love? Such questions often run through the minds of those in love. So we are exploring this topic.
The Magic of Life
First of all, there is no 100 percent certainty that the loved one feels exactly the same way as you do. Unfortunately. Or maybe fortunately. It depends on how you look at it. The fact is: we are humans—and not machines. And this also means: we don't have an inner mechanism that can be programmed, no screws we can turn to keep the settings constant, and no guarantee that what's broken can be quickly fixed. On the contrary, we must be prepared for anything to happen at any time—both positively and negatively. In literature, this would be called a plot twist. What initially sounds entirely negative actually contains the essence of life in general: the fact that each day is different and holds something new is fundamentally what life is all about. If we knew from the start what would happen next, we would get bored. And all the magic would be gone.
How to recognize real love: a few signs
Nevertheless, there are signs that indicate that the person close to our heart is serious about us. But beware: true love is multi-layered and has a different meaning for each person. The most important basic requirement for this is to know yourself well. Because then you also know what you want from the other person. You can then look out for the following signs that indicate true love:
Honesty: Honesty is at the top of the list: true love only has a chance if everyone involved speaks openly with each other. This means: wishes and ideas, but also mistakes, must be communicated honestly.
Trust: True love means letting go, accepting and embracing. And the basis for this is mutual trust. True love therefore gives you the feeling of being able to let go completely.
Freedom: Closely linked to this is the next value: lovers also give each other enough freedom. And that is incredibly important. In other words, both must be able to exist outside the love bubble and develop freely.
Empathy: We don't always function the way we would like to - life often puts obstacles in our way. It is then essential that we feel understood. Conversely, we need to be able to put ourselves in the other person's shoes in order to show compassion.
Passion: For some, passion means longing, for others honest desire, for still others stability in an unstable world. Whatever it is, without this mutual enthusiasm, it will be difficult to keep a relationship going.
Respect: Those who truly love perceive others as equals, are interested in the other person and look for solutions together. And all of this requires respect and loyalty - in good times, but also in challenging phases.
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Forgive: Nobody is perfect, mistakes are part of our lives. True love forgives - provided, of course, that the circumstances allow it. Such an atmosphere of trust can even lead to love being further strengthened.
Similarities: Common ground is not a value in the true sense of the word, but it is nevertheless an important ingredient. This is not about having the same opinion or sharing all interests, but about finding common ground for the future.
Laughter: For many, humor is literally the salt in the soup - and this also applies to love. Those who can make each other laugh have the best prerequisites for long-term happiness.
Give and take: A healthy balance between both parties is fundamental in this respect. And it's not about the right gift on the anniversary, but about everyday life and supposedly small things that have a big impact.
Work: A relationship is work. Whether it's a shared apartment, a stay abroad, a wedding or illness - there are always challenges. Only those who don't throw in the towel straight away, but allow change, can speak of love.
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Small and large confessions of love are trumps
True love therefore depends not only on your own ideas, previous experiences and your own set of values, but is primarily a harmonious potpourri of different factors, spiced up with a good dash of work. Because loving someone is a conscious decision. It is also a fact that it is important to signal to the other person again and again how much you like him or her.
With small and large tokens of love. Our Mevisto jewelry is one way to seal your love and always carry your loved one with you.
We use just 10 g of hair to create personalized gemstones that carry the essence of your partner. And thanks to our close collaboration with regional goldsmiths, we can fulfill your every wish in terms of design and cut. All you have to do is find the perfect moment to present this special gift.
